Excellence vs. Excuses – Part 2

Last week, we covered being the effect of things that happen to you. This week, we are going to be the cause of the things we want in our life.

Cause Side

Those at cause see themselves as creating results – instead of looking for reasons for non-results. When they don’t complete their paperwork on time, they look for those of their acts that produced that result – and how they can change those.

When they don’t meet commitments on time, they accept that it’s because of something that they did or did not do – or something that they attracted to themselves because of what they are projecting in to the world.

When they don’t complete their tasks on time, they recognize that they it’s because “these things happened that I allowed to distract me from doing this”.

When they don’t take the actions that will achieve their goals or KPIs, it’s because “I became distracted or lacked the time management systems or skills to handle these things in a timely fashion”; I allowed other people to put me off instead of making arrangements that would achieve my goals. “Other people” can sense when a person is determined to achieve their ends, and usually step in to assist them or at least to get out of their way.

When they fail to follow established processes and systems they will ask themselves why, or seek counseling, or training or a change of habit that will make it easier to follow process easier next time.

Of failure, they say things like, “I didn’t take into account the type of businesses that are in my area, so I need to do more research before going again; I didn’t take the time to understand the economy here and so I muffed it – I’ll do my research and go again; my clients are different so I need to work out what I need to change in order to take that into account; the systems aren’t working the way they should so we need to determine whether it’s me or the systems and change the bit that needs it”.

I can be a success despite or because of:
• My parents
• My teachers
• My wife
• My ex wife
• My ex partner
• My clients
• My university professor
• The company’s systems
• My health

I am the Cause of all the Effects in my Life. What I Perceive is a Product of What I Project.

Above or Below the Line

People who perceive chaos, challenge and lack of organization, system and process do so because they have yet to create order in their behavior; to accept the opportunity to develop new strength and courage by meeting new challenges; to take responsibility for learning and applying basic processes for taking control of their use of time and their management of the events that impact on them by organizing themselves, creating or using systems and seeking new processes that deliver consistently good results.

It’s never what happens to you; it’s always a matter of how you choose to interpret it (and that will depend on your chosen model).

By the way, your model is a choice.

Living “above the line” is a matter of personal choice – and of personal discipline.

Goal set all the time, and focus your energy

Own everything in your Life

Learn from every action and consequence

Do what you commit to
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Despair – and wait to be rescued

Excuse yourself and avoid learning lessons

Blame everyone else for your actions and consequences

Take what you can and don’t worry about repaying

How you approach life – Cause or Effect, Gold or Debt – it’s all up to you.

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